No He Did Not

Oh these 'hater on cheaters' glorified songs need to stop being made let alone played ! This one was bad outright because he is caught on it, caught talking to one while staring down or kissing up to another. And ladies it is not an exclusive act of deception reserved exclusively to one race, it is all of the races. Every culture that has a man with a less-than-strong will, cannot resist having more than one and making the first jealous. It was to be the first exposure she would have of me and he jellied right there on the spot. Young, indecisive, in-love and became a puddle of chocolate pudding, it was funnier later but . . .

But we catch on. That is correct cheaters, we catch on and it is, in part, thanks to songs like this. Yes sir gentlemen we catch on. Why, you still ask after thinking, "I'm so good at this" ? Because women like those creating the foursome Destiny's Child-- these ladies know the average, the -better-than-average and the creme of the crop men. They sing it and live seriously understanding what "say my name" doesn't mean. It is not all good, it represents the lack of respect cheaters have for the women they cheat on, not necessarily with. Unfortunately because of the attractive seductiveness of this song, out-of-touch with women psychologically impaired males still think the average woman does NOT know better and can be played. It is done regardless and if continuously tolerated, who really is at fault.

This song had a negative impact and made me more cynical against any man that cheats on someone he loves, especially his wife. I have less respect for the man who does it thinking if she did know would adopt this thought: " . . . do you think I would be left alone, heck no, she loves me !".  So sickenly sure of themselves has no appeal to me. This type of music simply exudes what I already have: an ill-regard for cheaters !